Battling the Recital Blues

Courtesy of Next Step Dance in Frisco, TX.

As much I love recital season there is a part of me that also dreads it. Every year I tell myself I am not going to obsess over my recital dances. And every year all I think about is how messy the dance is and how bad it’s going to look on stage. And recently these thoughts have really put me in a rotten mood when I teach.

But I’ve had a change of heart thanks to one of my studio employers. Her advice: Focus on the positive instead of the negative. She made me realize that I rarely say anything encouraging to my dancers now-a-days because I am constantly knit picking. I never wanted to be that type of teacher so I knew this had to stop now.

It’s amazing what a few words can do to your teaching morale. This week, instead of focusing on the bent knees and half-pointed toes, I focused on my dancers growth both skill wise and personality wise. I also tried to give more positive critiques. By doing this, I was much happier during class and not surprisingly so were my dancers. I also took a few minutes in each class to acknowledge the kids hard work and let them know how proud I am. We all left class feeling good.

As busy teachers and studio owners sometimes we get so caught up in studio politics and recital drama that we forget about the bigger picture. I know I do. So when you start to feel things spiraling out of control take a moment and remind yourself why you love what you do.

Then take a deep breath, count to 8 and get back into the studio.


About kddance

I am a dance fanatic living in Dallas, TX. Not only do I teach dance but I also love writing about it. My love for dance started at the age of six when my mom signed me up for my first dance class. I have training in ballet, tap, jazz, lyrical, modern and acrobatics. In college I minored in dance and majored in journalism. I have had articles published in Dance Spirit, Dance Teacher and the Dance Council of North Texas' DANCE publication. Let me share my stories with you.
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One Response to Battling the Recital Blues

  1. John D says:

    Wow, can’t help but feel this applies to so many other situations…

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